15 Good Reasons To Be a Fit Mom (or Dad!)

15. If you're a fit mom, then you're also just plain fit. Nice!! 

14. When your two-year-old takes off in the parking lot you can actually catch him!

13. Carrying a newborn around the house for hours on end is no joke, even if she does only weigh 8lbs.

12. Housework is hard work! Bending, lifting, stepping, carrying, pushing, wiping... 

11. Having the energy to make more babies 

10. Having the energy to be pregnant with all the babies you've made  

9. Being the mom who actually plays with her kids at the playground/park is awesome! 

8. Living room dance parties with the kids. 

7. Living room wrestling matches. 

6. Sometimes you will need to move furniture. Or appliances. Or boxes. Or power tools. By yourself. 

5. Have you ever found yourself juggling an infant in the carrier, a toddler in one arm, diaper bag over the other shoulder, and pushing some kind of cart or stroller through a public place? Yeah, fitness will help with that. 

4. God forbid one of my kids is ever in danger, I'd like think I would have the strength, speed, agility, and stamina to help them. 

3. Being able to give your kids legitimately good information about diet and exercise; lord knows they're not getting anything valuable from the media. 

2. Improved fitness = improved health = increased longevity. Your kids deserve to have as much time with you as you can give them.

1. By respecting your own body you send the message to your children to value their bodies as well; this respect manifests itself in their physical, mental, and emotional health and has a profound effect on their self-esteem and sense of self-worth. I can't think of a better lesson to teach my children than how to love themselves.

2.5 Weeks Postpartum

The past 17 days have gone by so quickly, and yet I've been soaking in every single second I've had with little Zoey. She has already grown so much (1lb and 7oz at her 2-week checkup!) thanks to her immense appetite and natural breastfeeding abilities. She has been such a wonderfully easy little baby, and that easiness paired with our more laid-back second-time-parent attitude has made the adjustment to having a second little one around that much less, shall we say, alarming ;)

Baby's first bath - she really liked it.

Very happy after eating.... AGAIN!

For those of you wondering, the birth went well (and yes, I worked out the day I went into labour!) I had to be induced in the end because my amniotic fluid levels were very low and posed a risk to Zoey if she stayed in there much longer. I opted for the epidural, which I have ZERO regrets about. Seriously, you women who do this naturally are Ah-May-ZING! We had no complications aside from the fluid levels though, and everything about my recovery has been going perfectly.

I had asked my OB at one of my last prenatal checkups if I would have to wait the full 6 weeks to go back to exercising, and she said that since I was a reliable patient who was already very fit that I could go ahead and start doing LIGHT workouts when I felt I was ready; this week, I felt ready.

I went into the gym on Wednesday for what I'm going to call a "Body Check-In". It wasn't a workout. Not even close. I took my body through a series of movements and took notes on how I felt in response to each of these movements. Here is what I did and what I learned:

Exercise		Notes		Prescription
Bodyweight Squats		Shins and abductors weak - leaning too far into my toes.		Work on glute activation
Planks		Felt good!
Posture analysis		Shoulders rounding forward		Strengthen upper back and stretch chest
Single Leg Lifts		Not ready for those! Lower abs way too sore still!		Pelvic Tilts, Diaphragmic breathing, and Vaccuums
Pushups		Good!
Oblique Twists		Good!
Lat Pulldowns		Good!
Single-Leg Squats		Left side not stabilizing well. Not ready for these yet.		Strengthen core and stretch hip flexors
Single-Arm Rows		Right lat tight.		Stretch lats and shoulders
Light Deadlifts		Low back tired quickly		Strengthen low back

In addition to how I feel, I can also see some areas where the pregnancy took its toll - namely on my glutes, which are smaller and softer than they were 9 months ago.  I'm not surprised at all at any of the weaknesses and imbalances I'm experiencing as they all correlate directly to pregnancy and breastfeeding. I have found that the areas most affected by pregnancy and the first few weeks postpartum to be:

-Upper back --> Shoulders are rounded forward during pregnancy to compensate for large weight being carried at the front of the body. Also due to excessive rounding during the many hours spent breastfeeding.
-Lower back --> Becomes overly arched during pregnancy because of extra weight in front
-Glutes --> Hip flexors tighten and glutes become lazy from the demands of carrying extra weight in front; diminished lower-body training during pregnancy, and diminished use during those hours of breastfeeding.
-Core/Abs --> Basically just from being stretched out for 9 months ;)

Today I went for my first actual workout, but kept it very very light and took many many breaks (I had to... my stamina is not what it used to be!).

First workout back and feeling GREAT!

I have no cardio in my program for the foreseeable future as I'm still taking my daily walks, and I don't want to lose weight too quickly for fear of interfering with my milk supply. For the next few weeks I'll do a "Foundational" style program, going back to basic movements that'll work on the areas I've highlighted above. Some examples of the exercises I'll be incorporating are:

-Supermans
-IYTL's
-Bird-Dogs
-Vaccuums
-Pelvic Tilts on floor
-Glute Bridges
-Cable Rear Delt Flyes
-Wall Sits
-Balance work
-Lots of stretching!

Finally, here is a comparison pic of me at 1 week postpartum with Jayden, and 2.5 weeks with Zoey (and Jayden):

I weigh 127lbs in both pics, but because I managed to maintain much more of my muscle with this pregnancy I actually look BETTER this time around (despite the fact that I'm still 6lbs over my starting weight, as opposed to 2lbs under my start weight in the first pic!). Just another reminder to not get too caught up in the numbers - go by how you feel, and how you look.

Yours in health and maternity,
Tess